So, Shannon and I took the cuddle all the time approach with Myles when it comes to putting him to sleep and handling any kind of wake up in the middle of the night.  We completely realize now how parents can handle a second child differently.  We found this out when we heard a pediatrician speaking to a class about what to do with children early on…the whole time I was making a mental check of all the things we did “wrong” or differently.  Yes, it is possible that the way we handled the sleep times have caused less sleep for us, but I don’t think I would trade those late night cuddles for anything.  Maybe we will do it differently if/when we have another child, but I wouldn’t trade this for anything.